Illusion was central to the thinking behind the 2025 exhibition Make Believe: Encounters with Misinformation at State Library Victoria, in which four artists including So investigated how misinformation has shaped life and culture. Interrogating the authenticity of the archive, So restaged historic photographs from the library’s collection. He shapeshifted among ‘authentic’ collection objects, appearing in doctored images as a Manchurian noble lady in the 1800s, a Cantonese woman with bound feet wearing a silk mask during the bubonic plague in 1900 or a real housewife of Box Hill.
An oscillation between what is fake and what is real is channelled through the artist by proxy in Seeking affirmation of a mother (2025), recently acquired by the National Portrait Gallery. Appearing in hologram form, So has fused himself with the voice and likeness of pop-cultural figure Kris Jenner, ‘momager’ of the Jenner-Kardashian empire. Using artificial intelligence (AI) to conjure Jenner’s voice, So acts like a puppet master. The Jenner hologram in turn responds to So; the monologue she performs for us is about So himself. She alternates between two contrasting evaluations of his practice: an effusive celebration of his artistic brilliance and a biting takedown of his work as derivative and self-indulgent, all generated using the AI chatbot, chat GPT. The piece nods to a 2020 episode of The Kardashians, where Kanye West surprised Kim Kardashian with a hologram of her late father, Robert Kardashian, for her 40th birthday. In a later 2023 episode, Jenner creates a hologram of herself to surprise her daughter Khloe.
Seeking affirmation of a mother reveals a new approach for the artist, in which So combines deep, personal emotion with a high camp visage. With his signature blend of irony and humour, So pokes fun at the fragile ego of the artist and his yearning for validation, framing the work as a therapeutic exercise. As he shared with me: ‘In the end, the AI voice line, the persona of Kris Jenner, the drag representation of her and the hologram version of her, none of these are real but it contains a certain truth of a queer artist seeking truths in their practice while aimlessly seeking affirmation of others and especially from a mother figure.’
More broadly, Seeking affirmation of a mother examines how identity is negotiated in digital spaces, where self-presentation and public perception influence how we construct and curate our personas. Set against the backdrop of the deepfake era – digitally manipulated photos, video or audio files that use AI to create a realistic but false depiction of a person doing or saying something they didn’t do or say – the work is a compelling summation of So’s current concerns, employing new technologies and popular culture to examine nuanced ideas of identity and its co-option. By adopting the voice and persona of a celebrity, So pushes drag into ethically ambiguous territory, raising questions about the ownership and control of identity in the digital age. Blurring the line between fantasy and reality, So disarmingly uses campness and beauty to question the reliability of the images we consume against the backdrop of a world of rapidly advancing technologies. ![]()